17 Things Women Want From Men In A Relationship (Part 2)

• A man who is Independent:

                                                                                                                                            A Guest writer

Women want to know that a man can take care of himself. They want a guy who is capable and independent, able to make his own decisions, pay his rent, and cook himself dinner.. A guy who is in constant need of reassurance, companionship, help, motivation, and advice is a turnoff.

• A man with  good Looks:

It is truly one of their great virtues that women are willing to spend so much time in our company despite our undeniably simian appearance. Still, despite their good nature, women care about looks too (if not quite as much as men do). Women aren’t asking for much. Try to keep yourself well-groomed. Wear clothes that fit, and at least make an effort to keep yourself in shape.

• A man who has a Positive Spirit:

Cynicism and sarcasm have their place, but nobody wants to be with someone who is sarcastic and cynical all of the time. It’s exhausting. By contrast, being in the presence of someone with a positive outlook on life can actually be energizing. An optimistic person makes others feel good; his optimism can be contagious, even inspiring.

• Communication skills:

We often tease women about their capacity for conversation. However, men ignore the female inclination to talk at their peril. Women place a priority on guys they can talk to, who can express themselves and who are at least willing to listen to them when they talk about their concerns, hopes and desires. You should also know that the communication skill that trumps all others is the ability to be attentive. Sometimes, all a woman needs you to do is listen. This is hard for us guys, because we’re very “action-oriented.” We think of every conversation as a prelude to some necessary action (otherwise, why talk?), but that’s not always the case. If you can show a woman you have the capacity to pay attention to her, it will radically improve your chances.

• Intelligence:

For some of us, this can be frustrating, because, let’s face it, we’d all like to be smarter, and

at one time or another we’ve all felt like the dumbest guy in the room. Avoid running your mouth on subjects you know nothing about. Better to be suspected a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.

• Sense of Humor:

Girls love a guy with a sense of humor. You don’t have to be a clown to impress your girl, but you do need to look at the happy side of everything now and then. A serious boyfriend may be great for family planning in the future but a fun guy is perfect all year around. A good sense of humour  just means you know how to tell and take a joke.

• Confidence: 

Confidence is the one thing women consistently say they want in a man. Confidence is king. That means even if you can’t categorise yourself as “the total package,” as long as you feel good about what you have to offer, and as long as you’re comfortable with yourself, you have a shot.

• Women love a guy who can get naughty:

Look for ways to make her laugh now and then. It doesn’t matter if it’s a naughty bedroom trick or a witty humorous prank. Women love seeing a fun side in a serious guy. It keeps the child in you alive, and it’ll definitely make her more excited to be with you.

Citation: www.howtolive.com, www.lifehack.org

Abigail Etim

GUEST WRITER

About the Writer

Hi, my name is  Abigail Etim I am 23 years old a Microbiologists, a guest writer for The Academy of HistoryMakers, I love writing, reading, chatting , cooking and inspiring young ladies to be what they want to be in life. You can contact me through this Email address: abigailokon@hotmail.co.uk or Click Here

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